James Sapara’s Personal Blog

Many moons ago I wrote this: My Guidelines for My Future Mate At the time, and since then I’ve consciously and unconsciously “graded” the girl I meet on those guidelines. Looking back, perhaps this was a bit of a mistake on my part. I guess to my logical mind it made sense to set criteria and seek someone who fit them all. Of course, if you read those guidelines you’ll notice that I’ve set myself up for a nearly impossible find.
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I am broken. I’ve been this way for many years now. At my best guess two years and a bit. That may no seem like a long time, but to someone stuck in a self-inflicted cycle of broken… it’s a long time. It all started with a girl and an online dating site. It was… pure chance and dumb luck that brought her and myself together. To this day it amazes me how well I remember our first “contact”.

Wow – totally cool. A guy who is willing to write to me before seeing my picture!
I love the concept of geloscopy – predicting someone’s future based on their laughter. There are so many different types of laughs, the nervous laughter, the uninhibited laughter, the slightly evil laugh, the extremely evil laugh – they say so much about a person. I’ve never studied it, I don’t know where I would go. But I do pay attention to what makes people laugh and the way that they laugh, I think it says so much about a person. I’m extremely attracted to people who laugh a lot.

The entire idea of geloscopy not only amazed me, but showed me a new aspect of self and others I had never seen before. While I’m sure she didn’t invent this mysterious field of study, it was the start of my interest in a girl I would never meet.
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